why is it seen as more radical for men to appropriate femininity than for women to reject it?
(don’t answer i know why)
(its because third wave libfeminism is bullshit and prioritises men and their feelings and achievements)
"The world’s been hard on us… hard on him… Joel has done some terrible things… he tells me on this journey, you hang to your morals and die, or do what it takes to survive… I guess I’ll find out."
a relationship will not cure your issues, no matter how hard young adult books and films try to push that notion on us. if you have depression or bipolar or anxiety or whatever, getting into a relationship isn’t going to cure that or make it go away. person with illness + relationship = ill person in a relationship. please don’t put all of your focus on finding someone to fix you, focus on fixing yourself the right way.